In the intelligence tests given immigrants at Ellis Island, “they were asked how a staircase should be swept: Do you sweep from bottom to top, top to bottom, or toward the sides. A Polish girl answered, “I haven’t come to this country to sweep staircases.”
You get to decide what you have — and have not — come here to do. Where does skipping breakfast fall? How about running yellow lights. Failing to vote. The list is as personal as you’re willing to make it.
Practice: Chose something you don’t approve of but find yourself doing anyway. Then decide whether it’s something you “came here to do.”
Applying unfamiliar language to a familiar behavior can help you work with it more effectively.