No matter how nice or intelligent everyone is, I just want to go home, put on my tutu and rollerblade.
Opinions about the right way to behave are a dime a dozen. The trick is identifying your own likes and dislikes, the behaviors you prefer.
Practice: Allow your preferences to surface at their own rate, until one of them makes you chortle. Amusement is an indicator that you’ve found your sweet spot: an action that is neither too risky nor too familiar.
Then give it a try. Rollerblading in a tutu, anyone?